I married a guy named Brian. We adopted 3 amazing kids out of foster care. We became the official local transracial family in our area and everyone seems to know us or of us. We love Batman, The Avengers, putting on costumes and parading around sci-fi conventions, feeding ducks and eating donuts. Along the way, I try to figure out how to do Lizzie's hair, explain to Antwan why his skin is different, and help William deal with his past. My life is silly, complicated, and worth it.